
The Meaning Behind The Song: Tous les mêmes by Stromae
Introduction
As a Music Therapist, I often come across songs that have a deep and profound impact on individuals. One such song that has resonated with me and my clients is “Tous les mêmes” by Stromae. I first heard this song on a rainy afternoon, and I remember being captivated by its powerful lyrics and mesmerizing melody.
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The Lyrics
“Tous les mêmes” translates to “All the same” in English. The song delves into the complexities and struggles of gender dynamics and relationships. Stromae, a Belgian singer-songwriter and rapper, uses his unique style to convey a heartfelt message.
In the first verse, he sings, “Vous les hommes, ‘s êtes tous les mêmes. Macho, mais cheap, bande de mauviettes infidèles.” These lines address the stereotypical behavior of men, criticizing their macho attitude and infidelity. Stromae questions whether they truly deserve the love they receive, adding a touch of irony by saying, “Z’avez d’la chance qu’on vous aime. Dis-moi ‘Merci'” (You’re lucky we love you. Say ‘Thank you’).
The chorus emphasizes the cyclical nature of relationships, with lines like “Rendez-vous, rendez-vous, rendez-vous au prochain règlement. Rendez-vous, rendez-vous, rendez-vous sûrement aux prochaines règles” (Appointment, appointment, appointment at the next settlement. Appointment, appointment, appointment surely at the next rules). This repetition reflects the constant cycle of fights, breakups, and reconciliations that often occur in relationships.
In the second verse, Stromae paints a vivid picture of a tumultuous relationship that is on the verge of ending. He plays with the idea of reversing roles, stating, “C’est l’monde à l’envers” (It’s the world upside down). He questions his partner’s intentions while acknowledging his own attempt to provoke a reaction. The lyrics showcase the pain and confusion experienced in troubled relationships.
The third verse touches upon societal pressures and the challenges of starting a family. Stromae highlights the double standards faced by women, singing “Moche ou bête, c’est jamais bon. Bête ou belle, c’est jamais bon. Belle ou moi, c’est jamais bon. Moi ou elle, c’est jamais bon” (Ugly or stupid is never good. Stupid or beautiful is never good. Beautiful or me is never good. Me or her is never good). These lyrics shed light on the expectations placed upon women and the difficulties they face in fulfilling them.
The Personal Connection
I remember stumbling upon this song at a friend’s house, and from the first notes, I was captivated. As a Music Therapist, I often rely on music to inspire and connect with my clients. “Tous les mêmes” struck a chord with me due to its raw honesty and emotional depth.
Through this song, I have witnessed clients express their own frustrations and challenges in relationships. It serves as a cathartic outlet for emotions that are often difficult to put into words. The universal themes touched upon in the lyrics create a space for introspection and self-reflection, allowing individuals to explore their own experiences and find solace in knowing they are not alone.
Conclusion
“Tous les mêmes” by Stromae is a powerful and thought-provoking song that explores the complexities of relationships and societal expectations. With his captivating lyrics and unique musical style, Stromae delves into the various struggles faced by individuals in their romantic lives. As a Music Therapist, I have witnessed firsthand the impact this song has had on individuals, providing them with a platform to express their emotions and find solace in shared experiences. Music has the ability to touch our souls and connect us on a deeper level, and “Tous les mêmes” undoubtedly does just that.
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